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Commemorating 5 Years Mark in Marriage

Imperial 50 Vintage Typewriter

The 1st gift that the husband, then boyfriend bought me is a diamond bangle in white gold. I already had a good-sized diamond bangle which I purchased impulsively. I love to choose my jewelry, and I don’t always love jewelry.

He promised not to buy ring; he bought a solitaire ring as proposal ring; I returned and exchanged in less than a week’s time, solitaire ring scratches. As the ring was among the highest priced series in the jewelry shop, I had to choose another pair of earrings to make up the difference.

The husband has since learnt to buy practical gifts.

More than often, men are ‘trained’ to believe that the more expensive and glamorous gifts they buy for their partners, the more it shows how much they treasure and cherish the relationship. I am not sure if that proves to be true for others, but I think, the value of affection cannot be weighed on the scale of materials and prices.

Imperial 50 Vintage Typewriter

I don’t really know what happened in between, but we are 5 years old! I mean, the marriage is 5 yeas old!

I am still talking about our love story and wedding day as if it just happened not too long ago, and it’s already been 5 years since the big day. Besides growing older in physical appearances, I think we are still young lovers.

Imperial 50 Vintage Typewriter

So, on commemorating the 5 years mark in our marriage, the husband found a perfect gift.

Imperial 50 Vintage Typewriter

I have loved typewriters forever. I especially love vintage typewriters. Like historic architecture, that once housed people of a long time ago, and there must have countless of stories within the building, or of the building. Typewriters, operated by a real person, must have typed so many moving words, formal letters, and stories of a completely different time and cultural background.

So much, only imagined in my head. That alone, fascinates me.

Imperial 50 Vintage Typewriter

The sound of the typewriter is like music to my ears.

I imagine, back in those difficult days, job must be scarce. The sound of typewriter indicated that the typist had a job. Sound of importance and self-esteem.

Yes, I also love hot seals, envelopes, manual inking pens, and beautifully pressed letter notes.

Although I love vintage tools, equipment, and architectures, I don’t resent technology. I love new gadgets too. Some days, what we have and use will be vintage. I embrace the past and the now.

Imperial 50 Vintage Typewriter

I hardly hint. If I want something, I take proactive action to make it happen; or to dismiss it as passing desire. I have wanted a typewriter forever; it is just in the lower priority group due to various considerations such as space constraint, and the time needed to source for a typewriter and the ribbons. Singapore moves very quickly and hardly known for keeping slow-moving stock – profit justification.

The husband has been looking out for a vintage typewriter, and gave several finds a pass due to unattractiveness of the machine and other factors. He had left his contact with the antique shop so that he could be contacted immediately to view new arrivals of old typewriters.

The shop never phoned.

He checked on the shop regularly anyway. A week before we left for our Anniversary Vacation to Chiang Mai, he spotted the perfect typewriter!

Needless to say, he bought it without hesitation. It was not in exact mint condition, some parts were rusting badly. He had the shop sent the machine for restoration – he was told that the restoration work will be performed by a aged mechanic.

The husband had told me that he bought me a gift, but left me to guess what was it. I made several crazy guesses, but I couldn’t think of anything that I really wanted at this time. I always want something, but I don’t need anything. The hints were that it was in my ‘to-buy list’, it had to be ‘made’ hence not readily available, and it can be used, but I would probably not use it often, and that I would not allow him to use it. (Oh well, the last hint was useless, I don’t really share many things with him, I even have my own quilt!)

My last guess was Wacom Inkling! I would love to have that, and it is taking forever to launch in Singapore. So, perhaps he placed a pre-order for the Inkling!!!! I was confident of my guess, but he denied. All the more, I confirmed my guess.

Today, the husband came home wearing a cheery expression on his face. ‘Your gift is ready!’

After unwrapping the typewriter, he went on with the ‘story’ of this very meaningful present…

More than 80 years old machine – Imperial Model 50 Typewriter, introduced in 1927

It is important that the machine is aged and dated back to way older than both of us – even with our ages added up!

The old age of the machine signifies that we will continue to enjoy many anniversaries, and celebrate our love even when we are 80 years old.

This sturdy machine survived World War II, and it still types; perhaps not as handsomely, but it still types decently, presenting a different charm.

The Typewriter

He gives me a typewriter so that I can type our love journal with this typewriter.

I sure hope he meant it as analogy! This cutie pie is not exactly the easiest thing to work your fingers on! I guess I will type a few love notes with it, but long story, erhm, please get a carton of correction tapes! This gorgeous does not correct! Say, it’s a machine of truth and perfection! ha!

Thank you, dear. I love the very meaningful gift, coming from the very thoughtful you.

Now, what would you buy when we hit the 10 years mark? Can’t wait!

What did I get for him, you ask? No..thing? I make coffee every morning, that’s very consistent loving gesture. :P

A Restful and Interesting Vacation to Kick-Start the Year of Dragon

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We started a restful and unexpectedly interesting vacation before kick-starting the year of Dragon.

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When we booked the room, we knew what we were getting ourselves into, we just didn’t expect a series of pleasant encounters and experiences while staying in a small and somewhat private compound of 4 independent traditional Thai houses.

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We’ve been needing a well rested vacation, to catch up with reading, and just physical and mental rest. Apart from achieving that objective during this vacation, we have enjoyed great company during our stay – from the exceptional hosts (young Chinese couple who speaks considerably good English and fluent Mandarin), and the 3 house-kittens and occasional visits of other cats from the neighbors.

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Bonus and lessons:
1. Our Mandarin ought to be improved; half the time, we paused in between sentences and tried to figure out the appropriate Chinese words to express our thoughts, while communicating with the hosts.
2. We have traveled to Thailand countless of times now, it’s a shame that we hardly knew the history, or culture of the Thai. From this couple, we learnt a tad more about Thai living, and also took an inside perspective into the Chinese culture.

By learning, we may then hope to understand the behaviors and attitudes of people from all over the world, and all walks of life.

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Chiang Mai, Thailand | 23 Jan, Day 5

We were up only at around 9am. Mike had the left over donut, I had toast with butter.

We walked over to the reception area to check out some day tours, and were quite interested in exploring Chiang Rai 1 day tour.

Mangoesteen

Mike decided to explore the city in the afternoon. I stayed in to read up the eBook on Fengshui tha I had purchased a few years ago, and never had time to read up since.

It was a while later that he came back, panting with sweat! It appeared that he got lost when coming back from Chinatown – I was relieved that he went alone, I wouldn’t like getting lost in such weather! – but he managed to find his way back. He came back with a pack of roasted chestnuts and mangoesteens.

Perfect afternoon

Mike continued reading Steve Job’s bio on his iPad; I stayed upstairs to read and nap.

The quietness that is a rare thing in Singapore

Generally, I don’t do small talks well. Although the owners of this resort had been very friendly and easy-going, they were not intrusive. Apart from the fact that they were busy with the work, they tried to leave us alone to enjoy this old city.

Kitchenette

The cat with a keen interest to read about Jobs

The cats in the compound were extremely friendly. One of the cats hopped up on Mike’s lap while he read. So, the cat was curious about Jobs too!

Sleeping after reading a few lines

Or not… He fell asleep in the cozy cuddle.

Don't mess with me!

Narrow lane

We headed out to have dinner when the sun began to set, and the temperature lowered.

Dinner

We had dinner at Cafe de Thaan Aoan, situated near our hotel.

Clear soup tom yum

The clear soup tom yum.

Clear as water, tastes like it too

A little bland for my taste.

Chicken with basil leaves

Chicken with basil.

Chicken with cashew nuts

Chicken with cashew nut.

After dinner, we walked to the minimart to top up the beers and snacks.

Mike mentioned that he would go for the tour on his own. I was resistant to the idea of day tour because they happened in the day when the sun was at the hottest.

This was the typical relaxed pace. Say, returned to basics?

The man was out to hunt for food – well, not exactly the hunting-hunt, it’s more of the urban hunt, you know what I mean?

The woman stayed home to work on the domestic stuffs – of course, that was limited to washing dishes and laundry, we were on vacation, what were you thinking??

We eat, sleep, played with cats, talked nothing too constructive or productive. Ah… Life is good!

 

Chiang Mai, Thailand | 22 Jan, Day 4

Lil flower...

We got up at 8:30am to a very cold temperature, and had breakfast. I decided to do laundry using the self-service washer in the compound.

The hosts and their cats

Chiang Mai Summer Resort is operated by the lovely couple, Ju Wei, and Junlan, and it is safe to say that the little 3 kittens co-own the resort too!

A small notebook – handmade notebooks sold in various places including the night market – is left in every villa for the guest to leave some thoughts, feedbacks, and for me to doodle on!

Swing

Mike’s blackberry ‘died’ on him completely. While he went out to the IT Mall to see if repair service was available; I stayed in to read up some materials on the iPad.

I love the unique furniture and decorations that the owners picked out for the resort. The swing that is made from a tree is one of my favorites.

Room

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Chiang Mai, Thailand | 21 Jan, Day 3

Come and play with me..

Had a very good sleep, and only woke at 8am. We had breakfast downstairs. Even though we were provided with coffee maker, we preferred instant coffee since we are not familiar with coffee maker that uses filter. The owners gave us bamboo sticks of steamed glutinous rice, it is probably a common Asian food, but it was new to me.

My solo keyboard was behaving quite erratically since the ‘spill’ accident. We borrowed the screwdriver tool set from Ju Wei and opened up the keyboard. I took the drastic measure to rinse the keyboard – but avoiding the microchips  and battery – thoroughly under running water, and dried with hairdryer.

While Mike used his notebook downstairs, I stayed upstairs at the reading corner to write the travel journal.

Meow meow, always pondering

The weather condition in Chiang Mai is quite drastic from day to night. I decided to stay indoor till the sun was setting, I figured that it was the only way I could truly enjoy a vacation. Hot sun doesn’t only fry my skin and hair, it has the horrifying power to fry my patience and mood dry too.

My plush meow was much neglected since I had real cats to play with.

Read a book

It was so comfortable to have some personal time alone. I spent the afternoon trying to repair the keyboard and watched television programs.

Besides the sound of nature, the environment presented a very peaceful sensation. It was perfect for us. The common problem with busy city people is that we are so used to packing our time so tightly, often, we sabotage our vacation which is supposed to help us take a real break from the hectic schedule.

I planned to catch up with my reading; I ended up with catching up with the much-needed sleep and rest – exactly what I needed most.

Lunch

Mike went out to Cafe de Thann Aoan for lunch; I had fruits instead.

Sleep well, I will stand guard

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